New Intimacy for Women- About Me

About Me

HELLO!

I'm Eleni Economides, and I am a sexual wellness and intimacy coach for women.

I know what it's like to not want to have sex as much as you used to in a long-term committed relationship.

I, too, felt guilty and stressed about not wanting it.

I wanted to want it, but I didn't.

I loved my partner and wanted them to be happy, and yet I felt a pressure for more sex that caused resentment.

I was frustrated with myself because of my strong desire to please and my difficulty saying "no", and I was getting mad at my partner for wanting it.

I could often get in the mood after things got started, and I would tell myself "I need to remember this" (you know-like going to the gym-you don't really want to go, but once you are there you get into it) only to find myself dreading and avoiding the next time.

I felt broken.

I was exhausted from taking care of everything and everyone, and sex became one more thing on my "to do" list, usually at the bottom.

I was avoiding any circumstance that could lead to it.

I avoided hugging, kissing and making eye contact, and I started going to bed at a different time than my partner.

I was in the Vortex of Intimacy Avoidance.

I resorted to having a drink or two when I thought "too much time has passed, tonight it needs to happen" so I could relax and get out of my head.

Sex became the elephant in the room, and both my partner and I were awfully aware of it.

That was me.

That stressful and painful place (the vortex) killed all the fun and intimacy in my most important relationship.

Until one day, I decided "NO MORE", and I made myself a promise:

"I will figure this out for my sake and the sake of so many other women I know that live in fear and worry about the future and what will happen to their relationship if they can not keep this up forever."

And I did.

I found my power.

Now, I want to help you wake up to the power YOU have.

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That's Exactly What I Did And I Want To Help You Do The Same.

You should work with me if you want to....

Be able to relax in your own space and not worry that your partner will ask for sex if he thinks you are not too "busy".

Feel at ease in the presence of your partner if your skin is showing, and not hide your body to avoid his attention.

Be present in the moment and able to show your love and affection for him instead of holding back out of fear that you will send the wrong message or that he might take it as a sign that you are in the "mood".

Learn how to say "no" from a place of love that helps you maintain your connection, without experiencing resentment, guilt or blame.

Stop looking at the calendar and counting the days in between to figure out how long it's been since the last time you had sex and when the next time "should be".

Feel good in your skin, love yourself and your body, and believe your partner when he tells you "you're hot"!

Experience sexual desire and create a sex life that works for you every time, because it is customized to what feels good to you.

Experience sexual pleasure and orgasms regularly.

Let's talk if you want more of this☝️

HERE IS WHAT SETS ME APART FROM OTHER SEX AND INTIMACY COACHES

I am a certified sex therapist, and I am clinically trained.

I talk about sex all day long.

What people think and believe about sex is often the very thing that keeps them stuck and unhappy with their sex lives.

I used to believe I should experience sexual desire naturally. When that did not happen, I checked my hormones. I looked at my trauma. I blamed it on pressure from men being "oversexual"savages....

I came to find out that I had lots of false information and gaps in my understanding of female sexuality and how it works.

Being honest with myself about my relationship with sex, and addressing the stress and anxiety I felt around it opened up the door to a new kind of sexual intimacy that I didn't even think was possible for me.

Improving my relationship with sex, and increasing my self-confidence had the most positive impact on my libido.

And I want to help you do the same.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and I have been working with couples since 2014.

Couples therapy and, of course, my own marriage showed me that when there is someone else to blame for feeling bad, it's hard to look at yourself and how you contribute to your own stuckness and unhappiness.

There are relationship rules not talked about often, that are crucial for a balanced, loving and meaningful relationship.

There are ways to communicate your thoughts and feelings that leave you feeling good regardless of your partner's response.

When it comes to communication and connection in an intimate relationship, I've seen what works and what doesn't, and I can teach you what makes the difference.

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HERE IS WHAT SOME OF MY CLIENTS THINK:

"Eleni helped me gain insight about the areas in my life over which I have control, which helped me counter my initial perspective that the behavior I was unhappy about was uncontrollable. She has a very open, warm, non-judgmental demeanor. I was discussing a behavior about which I felt a lot of shame, and I never felt uncomfortable in her presence. In fact, she welcomed whatever came up for me in our sessions together. "

S.S.

Client

Eleni is very knowledgeable and empowering! The biggest takeaway from working with her was learning how to lean into my responsive desire. She helped me to understand that if I worked on finding my turn ons, and keep them intentionally in my mind, it could really help to ignite some desire when the time came for intimacy. This concept helped me to understand that there is nothing wrong with me, and this is so normal for all people, especially women. I also love how she framed this work as an act of "self-love".

B.L.

Client

Eleni offered meaningful insights through every step of our work together. She helped me clearly define my goals, and asked astute questions. She is a thoughtful listener, and her comments were always geared toward promoting my self-reflection so that the breakthroughs I made were empowering. Any deep self-reflection has the potential for discomfort; Eleni was always a compassionate and giving listener. Our time together was well spent and I would recommend her without reservation.

A.B.

Client

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