About Me

About Me

HELLO!

I'm Eleni Economides

I know what it's like to feel conflicted about sex after having kids.

I, too, was stressing about it. I wanted to want sex but I didn't.

I needed to have a drink or two before I could relax enough to enjoy myself.

I wanted my partner to be happy and yet I felt a pressure that caused resentment.

I was frustrated with myself because of my desire to please and my difficulty with saying "no", and I was getting mad at my partner.

I would get in the mood after things got started and I would tell myself "I need to remember this" (you know-like going to the gym- you don't really want to go, but once you are there you get into it) only to have it not work next time.

I felt broken.

I was exhausted from caring for everyone and sex was one more thing on my "to do" list, usually at the bottom.

I was avoiding circumstances that could lead to sex. Hugging, kissing and making eye contact decreased and I started going to bed at a different time than my partner.

Sex became the elephant in the room, and both my partner and I were awfully aware of it.

That was me....

That stressful and painful place killed all the fun and intimacy in my most important relationship.

Until one day, I decided NO MORE and I made myself a promise.

I promised myself I would figure this out for my sake and the sake of so many women that live in fear and worry of what will happen to their relationship or marriage if they can not keep this up forever.

And I did.

I figured it out.

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That's Exactly What I Did And I Want To Help You Do The Same.

You should work with me if you want to....

Relax in your own space and not worry that your partner will ask for sex if he thinks you are not too "busy".

Feel at ease in the presence of your partner if your skin is showing, and not hide your body to avoid his attention.

Be present in the moment and free to show your love and affection for him instead of holding back out of fear that you will send the wrong message and that he will take it as a sign that you are in the "mood".

Learn to say "no" from a place of love that leaves you feeling connected, without resentment, guilt or blame.

Stop looking at the calendar and counting the days in between to figure out how long it's been since the last time you had sex and when the next time should be.

Feel good in your skin and love yourself and your body regardless of the stretch marks, the number on the scale or the size of your clothes (and believe him when he tells you he thinks you're hot!).

Experience sexual desire and create a sex life that works for you every time, because it is customized to what feels good to you.

Experience sexual pleasure and orgasms regularly.

Let's talk if you want more of this☝️

HERE IS WHAT SETS ME APART FROM OTHER SEX AND INTIMACY COACHES

I am a clinically trained and AASECT certified sex therapist.

I talk about sex with my clients all day long.

What I have discovered is that what people think and believe about sex is often the very thing that keeps them stuck and unhappy with their sex lives.

I used to believe I should experience sexual desire naturally. When that did not happen, I checked my hormones. I looked at my trauma. I blamed it on pressure from social media and men for being "oversexual"savages (my dear husband first).

I came to find out that I had lots of false information about how female sexuality and sexual desire work.

Being honest with myself and addressing the anxiety and pressure I felt around sex opened up the door to a new kind of sexual intimacy that I didn't even think was possible for me.

Getting the correct information about how female sexual pleasure works and finding ways to increase my own desirability and self-confidence had the most positive impact on my libido.

And I want to help you do the same.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and I have been working exclusively with couples for the past 8 years.

Working with couples, I have seen what works and what doesn't in intimate relationships and what makes the difference in the ones that last a lifetime.

Couples therapy (and of course being married myself...) showed me that when there is someone else to blame for feeling bad, it's hard to look at yourself and how you contribute to your own stuckness and unhappiness.

There are relationship rules not talked about often, that are crucial for a balanced, loving and meaningful relationship.

There are ways to communicate your thoughts and feelings that leave you feeling good regardless of your partner's response.

And I want to help you do the same.

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HERE IS WHAT SOME OF MY CLIENTS THINK:

"Eleni helped me gain insight about the areas in my life over which I have control, which helped me counter my initial perspective that the behavior I was unhappy about was uncontrollable. She has a very open, warm, non-judgmental demeanor. I was discussing a behavior about which I felt a lot of shame, and I never felt uncomfortable in her presence. In fact, she welcomed whatever came up for me in our sessions together. "

S.S.

Client

Eleni is very knowledgeable and empowering! The biggest takeaway from working with her was learning how to lean into my responsive desire. She helped me to understand that if I worked on finding my turn ons, and keep them intentionally in my mind, it could really help to ignite some desire when the time came for intimacy. This concept helped me to understand that there is nothing wrong with me, and this is so normal for all people, especially women. I also love how she framed this work as an act of "self-love".

B.L.

Client

Eleni offered meaningful insights through every step of our work together. She helped me clearly define my goals, and asked astute questions. She is a thoughtful listener, and her comments were always geared toward promoting my self-reflection so that the breakthroughs I made were empowering. Any deep self-reflection has the potential for discomfort; Eleni was always a compassionate and giving listener. Our time together was well spent and I would recommend her without reservation.

A.B.

Client

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