I talk about sex with my clients all day long.

What I have discovered is that what people think and believe about sex is often the very thing that keeps them stuck and unhappy with their sex lives.

I used to believe I should experience sexual desire naturally. When that did not happen, I checked my hormones. I looked at my trauma. I blamed it on pressure from social media and men for being "oversexual"savages (my dear husband first).

I came to find out that I had lots of false information about how female sexuality and sexual desire work.

Getting the correct information about how female sexual pleasure works and finding ways to increase my own desirability and my self-confidence had the most positive impact on my libido.

Addressing the anxiety and pressure I felt around sexual intimacy opened up the door to a new kind of sexual desire that I didn't even think existed. 

And I want to help you do the same. 

Working with couples (and of course being married myself...) showed me that when there is someone else to blame for feeling bad, it's hard to look at yourself and how you contribute to your own stuckness and unhappiness.

Through my work with couples, I have seen what works and what doesn't work in intimate relationships and what makes the difference in the ones that last a lifetime.

There are ways to communicate your thoughts and feelings that leave you feeling good regardless of your partner's response.

There are relationship rules not talked about often, that are crucial for a balanced, loving and meaningful relationship. 

And I would love to show you.